Learn How 'Forgiveness' Can Impact Your Relationship With Others Positively - By Florence Olugbodi

Did you even have a forgiving spirit? Read through as I share with you a true life story of two friends who after everything are still doing great.

Oh! I see you are in the same gang with those that do say "I can never forgive him or her"?.

The fact you don't know is when you cannot forgive, you definitely imprison yourself rather than the other person. Your heart will be full of hatred, anger, negativity and you be the one to suffer it all.

You will suffer from lack of trust which will surely affect your relationship with all other person, and you will start doing all other things that will diminish your worth as a person. Meanwhile, the other person is not being hurt, why then did you have to stay in bondage when you can give yourself the freedom you needed.

Michael and Samuel were two close friends and they have been friends for decades.

So far so good, an issue occured between Michael and Samuel's immediate brother, Michael actually did not give a damn about his friendship with Samuel, so he took Samuel's sick brother and locked him up in jail.

Samuel call his friend to plead on his brother's behalf, "think of where we've been coming from", he said. But Samuel's plea fell into Michael's deaf hear.

Samuel went to replace his brother in jail because of his health, he told security Operatives to release his brother and let him stay in his place.

Samuel slept in cell till the following day when his parent came to bail him up and settle the issue with Samuel's immediate brother and Michael.

I know all your thoughts now is that 'you will never continue your friendship with Michael again'... you are even vowing not to have anything to do with Michael again.

But it is actually my pleasure to let you know both are still friends today, regardless of what happen they are still two good friends doing great, they have put their past behind them.

Samuel gave room for forgiveness and gave himself and his friend the freedom to move on.

When you truly forgive someone the past shall remain and should never be brought again.

Though it hurts, you may have to remember their evil acts as if they all happened yesterday, but true forgiveness will erase all the memories in your heart and mind.


Forgiveness on your part give you and the other person the freedom to be out of bondage and move on.


You liberate yourself by learning to let go of blame and starting to embrace compassion.

Those who are able to forgive are more likely to live a happy and healthy lives which you and I deserve.

Your inability to forgive will always create problem and will never give you that healthy and loving relationship you always crave for and it will always.

And so you want to enjoy a Healthy and Romantic Relationship----Then How forgiving are you???


To a love filled relationship
Abidemi Olugbodi Florence.

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